A grounded way forward

Your mind left. Your body needs time.

Unlearning Fear is a gentle 21-day guide for women leaving fear-based faith—pairing body-based resets, clear history, and practical language for rebuilding what comes next.

Instant digital download · Core guide from $19

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What you can expect

No pressure to arrive at the “right” answer.

After Amen offers education and self-regulation tools for moving at your own pace. The guide is research-aware, plainspoken, and designed to help you feel steadier—not to replace one set of certainties with another.

Private, self-paced formatConcrete practices, not platitudesMade with complex families in mind

The 21-day path

Settle the fear. Understand the story. Rebuild gently.

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Week one · Body

Meet the guilt spike differently

Short somatic resets help you notice tightness, dread, and shame without treating them as proof that you are wrong.

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Week two · History

Put the teachings in context

Museum-placard-style reads trace where familiar teachings came from, giving your questions useful historical ground.

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Week three · Rebuild

Find words for what matters now

Values worksheets, family conversation scripts, and a “what I tell my kids now” page help you speak without having everything settled.

A little extra steadiness, ready when you need it

Every edition includes printable reset cards and a curated reading list.

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Choose your format

Start where support feels doable.

Both options include the complete 21-day guide. Choose the bundle if listening makes body practices easier to use in the moment.

Core guide

$19

The complete digital workbook, printable reset cards, and reading list.

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Audio bundle

$37

Everything in Core, plus guided audio versions of the somatic practices.

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You can go slowly

Fear doesn’t get the final word.

Give your body practical support while you make room for a life and values that are genuinely yours.

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After Amen provides educational and self-regulation resources, not therapy or medical care. If trauma symptoms are affecting daily life, consider support from a licensed trauma-informed therapist.